A Simple Yet Powerful Way to Practice Gratitude This Week
Learning to Think Positively May Extend Your Life
Have you ever noticed that some people seem to be able to maintain a relatively positive attitude regardless of what’s happening around them? Like everyone, they can appreciate the good times, but they also seem to be able to focus on the positive in the face of some pretty negative events.
Fortunately, a positive attitude can be cultivated, with a little practice. Although we are born with specific temperamental tendencies, the brain is a muscle, and you can strengthen your mind’s natural tendency toward optimism if you work at it. And also, fortunately, working on building your “gratitude muscle” can be enjoyable in itself. But the benefits you gain would make it worth the effort even if it was a dull, difficult task.
Your mission, should you choose to accept it
Recognize:
Your job today is a simple one. Choose one person in your world that makes you feel truly thankful for their part in your life. It can be a spouse, a friend, a family member or a co-worker. It really doesn’t matter who they are — what’s more important is the feelings of gratitude they elicit in you.
Write:
Now, I want you to write them a letter. Purchase a blank greeting card that helps reflect your relationship with this individual. As you write this letter, tell them why you value their relationship and include a few points that are especially noteworthy — a great ability to listen, the best time you’ve ever shared with them, character traits you really appreciate. Anything that comes to mind and helps to build the whole of your gratitude.
Reveal:
Here comes the more difficult part — you need to read them your letter in-person. Be it face-to-face or over the phone, Skype, or any other number of means, you need to convey it to them personally. Follow up by mailing or hand-delivering it.
Reflect:
As you do this, make note of the different feelings it might bring up — nervousness, happiness, contentment, giddiness, or maybe even a little sadness or distress.
Each of these emotions and responses plays into that overall gratitude you feel, and as you begin to recognize its different components, you’ll notice that these come up in day-to-day life, and you will soon start noticing how small they can be and that they, too, are grounds for gratitude.
A positive attitude makes for a happy life!
What tips do you have to share on keeping a positive outlook?
