Embracing the Bittersweet Journey of Aging Parents: A Love Story

Devin C. Hughes
5 min readJul 2, 2024

As we navigate through the rollercoaster of life, there comes a moment when the roles we once played reverse, and we find ourselves becoming the caregivers for the ones who once cared for us. This inevitable phase of adulthood brings a mix of emotions — from love and gratitude to frustration and exhaustion.

Welcome to Your New Role: Parent to Your Parents

So, here you are, officially promoted to the CEO of Parenting Your Parents Inc. — a role you neither applied for nor were you fully prepared to take on. Who knew that your extensive experience in temper tantrum management and midnight snack preparation would come in handy again? However, your clients are a bit more seasoned this time, and their demands are slightly more sophisticated than your toddlers.

Navigating this delicate dance of care and independence requires a master’s degree in patience and a PhD in boundary setting. Remember when your parents taught you to tie your shoes or ride a bike? Well, it’s payback time, but with a twist. Now, it’s all about managing medications, attending countless medical appointments, and deciphering the latest health insurance policies (because they change more frequently than mom misplaces her glasses).

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Devin C. Hughes

Keynote Speaker | Mindfulness Maven | Happiness Muse | Author | Diversity & Inclusion Advocate | www.devinchughes.com