Why should the fun be limited to Superman? The Travels of a Father in an Empty Nest

Devin C. Hughes
5 min readJun 14, 2024

After the kids move out, rediscovering who you are might be challenging, but it can also be incredibly energizing and even enjoyable.

So, you’ve finally reached that stage in life where your kids have flown the coop. The silence in the house is deafening, but hey, at least the remote is finally all yours. As a father or dad whose purpose was once solely on raising children, you may ask, “Now that my children are grown, what is my purpose?” Fear not, my fellow empty-nest dads, for the adventures of this new chapter in life are just beginning.

The Silence is Deafening, but the Remote is Finally Mine

Picture this: an evening as quiet as a secret, with not a single sound of “Dad, where’s my phone?” or “She’s hogging the TV!” Yes, you’ve guessed it — the house is now an echo chamber of tranquility, a perfect backdrop for the symphony of your solo TV remote clicking. Embrace the silence, my fellow dads, for it heralds a golden era where the battle for the remote is a tale of yore. Dive into that endless sea of channels, where the only interruption is the occasional snack break or the much-needed stretch. Revel in the luxury of watching a football game, a classic movie, or that documentary about the Amazon you’ve been curious about, all without a chorus of…

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Devin C. Hughes

Keynote Speaker | Mindfulness Maven | Happiness Muse | Author | Diversity & Inclusion Advocate | www.devinchughes.com